Hope it's not too late

[what next?]

I don't discuss anything personal on Facebook... just what I'm up to and stuff so that she can see that I am out living life and not sitting at home in the dark crying lol.

I will go to the counselor until the divorce decree. I will lose my insurance (through her work) at that point and then I will have to stop. But I would like to keep going once I get insurance again. One thing for sure is that if we can make this work somehow we need to both go and work things out.

I have some great friends that are especially good at being objective and my sister is a social worker so she has been real good to talk to. Mostly what I have talked about with them was how they perceive me and what I need to do to work on myself. My sister had a pretty close relationship with my wife but recently had a baby and they grew apart a bit. Since this has happened she has worked to establish trust with my wife and let her know that she can be there for her if she needs anything.

My sister saw my wife today and my wife said to her that she felt like "we were just roommates." How do I validate that without contacting her? lol