I agree, NM. I made a decision that I can be sad about our kids 'losing' their family unit (and I still am sad, from time to time), but it is more productive to put my energy into making sure my kids have the best time growing up they can given the life they have now.
And that also means keeping the best relationship I can manage to keep with their dad so we can do the coparenting thing and give them some 'family' experiences from time to time.
