Hi Zen, My H aslo does the whole 'Everyone wants a piece of him thing'. He is very judgemental of others and constantly puts them down/points ot bad things etc - to make himself feel better I think. Its like their inner Narcissist comes to the forefront.
I did some reading up on Narcissism, and while H has a few light tendencies before, they really have become fully blown through this thing...
I've also reached a limit with H - you can check my sitch
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