Starting on a different path

[Abbey]

Ended up interacting with H this morning. He was talking to me through DS's open car door.

He said to me, "So that wasn't too bad driving out there the other night." And I said "Yeah, except for the panic attack" in a somewhat sarcastic tone. So he replied, "What's there to panic about?" I didn't answer him. He then asked, "Do you still think we're going to work things out or have you accepted that we aren't?" I told him that my thoughts are my own and he responded that was true, but they do impact other people, I didn't respond. He then asked if I had changed my mind "on the D" and I told him no, so he replied "That answers that question" and walked away. What confused me was he said "the D" and usually will say the full word divorce.

Hmm... he's still looking for absolution. Don't give it to him. I wouldn't have said about the panic attack... keep that to yourself in the future, ... it was predictable that he'd use it against you and say something negative.

I like the drop the rope idea. Should twist him up... he needs a good dose of that.

And yep, I know Mystik, one day at a time, doesn't mean I ain't gonna poke you with a stick every once in a while *hug*

Abs