Well now she is cracking already... OM ended it supposedly on MOnday saying he was tired of all this and now he realizes that she will never leave her H.
I still haven't heard enough to be convinced this is worth it and that we are at a point with enough to give it the effort required
She did say to me that you have all the control now...you have decide if you would even be willing to try again after this mess I created again
I don't like that she is acting like she's at the mercy of OM and you. She needs to get control of herself. You are not in control of her doing the work that she needs to do now. The only control you have is spelling out what she would need to do to have a CHANCE at being with you...no guarantees. Her being dumped by OM is not going to make her into a person who is capable of being in a healthy marriage.
48 hour rule for sure.
(((Hugs)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
