Yes, moving forward but also truly doing work that you need to change for you...the flaws you brought to the marriage and/or the flaws you have as a person...building your own life so that when/if you reconcile you will be a whole person on your own that can bring more to the relationship...and growing the confidence in being proud of who you are and your attributes that makes you so attractive to others!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
