I am 33 and my h is 34. We have been married for 10 years but together for a total of 20. We were childhood sweethears and have 3 girls and i baby on the way (due in march). About 3 months ago he told me that he wasnt happy. We started marriage counseling and we were "working on our relationship". That lasted about 3 weeks of me trying. He finally said he was going to move out and he did for 1 day. He came back crying saying that it did not feel right and that he really was commited to trying. Two weeks went by. We were not perfect but communicating and getting along. HE then said that its not working and things had not changed. He is planning on moving out next week. I have started doing some 180 stuff and i can see some moments when he appears interested. He wants to continue being intimate and i have agreed although i think he has his cake and eating it to. We agreed on some terms such as visation and agreed not to see other people until march (baby is due) until we can reevaluate. He still tells me he loves me. Most of our friends think he is having a mlc and just needs time. They think is the pressure of our 3 kids and having a 4th on the way.
In the past he has had moments in our relationship when he has said he has wanted to break up and then he comes back. I am so scared and lonely. I am due in march and have been an emotional wreck. I have been trying to gal and this sems to annoy him but i keep doing things that are different for me. 1. is to get is attention and 2. i need to take care of myself. What do you all think. What should i say?? I no longer ask/beg him to stay.
