kitti,

Great exercise for all of us, especially me!!

Here goes:

H continues to lie to me over and over again. H is hiding his affair with OW and is trying to have his cake and eat it too.

H lies to me because he does not feel safe telling me the truth. H is still working on tearing down that wall he has built around him. H will not bring up anything that has to do with his female friend to me because I have acted very controlling and judgemental of their friendship in the past.

Please comment as you see fit! nik