I was separated as well, had been for three months, had been NC for about six weeks too, just minimal contact, I wasnt expecting to see H until a further two weeks away as he was supposed to be cat sitting whilst I went away for the weekend..
Suddenly out of the blue he said he was coming up to visit and I honestly thought he was coming up to tell me about the OW, well there wasnt one of the traditional sort anyway.. We had a fabulous weekend and it was the beginning of a very long road back to rebuilding our relationship.. It took nearly an additional four months till he came home and we are still building our M together almost a year later!
It started off with lots of talks and H being really interested in this new W transformed by 180's and detachment!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!