yikes, ugh, I don't want to sound like I am saying how it's so great being divorced and you should join the club. I hope you see that I am not saying that...
It's just that there is a reason why God allows husband and wife to divorce in the case of infidelity. It's one of the commandments, and I am saying that after a certain point, well, the old marriage is DEAD! The marriage with the cheating husband! The marriage where the husband cheated on you after you got pregnant and he moved across the world to leave his daughter and be with OW.
It is so crystal clear to me what Gatsby said months ago--she wanted to just go ahead and divorce because she knew that the divorce did not mean that she and her H wouldn't end up together.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
