How do I deal with now he's overseas?

[newmama]

I like that email, Piano. You don't have to end it other than
"- Piano"

I like it because it sounds calm, not angry, not too kiss ass-ey, just matter of fact. It sounds like you are taking charge but you also alluded that this is painful (as in you aren't the one choosing to end the marriage but since he brought up separation you are going for it)

And Piano, I don't think being heartbroken and deeply sad by this decision has ANYTHING TO DO WITH BEING CODEPENDENT!!! It is normal, it is healthy, it is a typical reaction to discussing the end of a marriage.

Gee, and how is he going to feel once he sees you are moving forward and not wondering how you could ever live without the idea of him by your side?



I just talked about the end of limbo--even if it means divorce-- ended up meaning the end to pain. Ok well not 100% but the pain lifted soooooo quickly after the D papers!

So he will see your bub in another 7 months? I just don't know about this man. I don't get it. I don't get my exH either.