H is planning to come over Sunday to get the rest of his things. I know he was really upset the last time he was moving things out of the house, so he'll likely be upset Sunday too. That would not be a good time to bring up R talk. I'm considering asking him if he would meet me one night during the week to finish our talk from Wed.
I made a list of the behaviors I would need from H to be fully secure in him again. Is there any point in giving this to him unless he asks? Although he is talking to me sometimes about each of our resentment/insecurities that have led us to this point, he still sounds very firm on divorce, and I don't know if it would be detrimental to give him the list, like I'm making demands on him or assuming that he is willing to meet those needs.
