..."Build the friendship part of the marriage..." CD Bear, I can't direct you to DR section that recommends it, but there is Michelle's article titled "While your spouse decides" in article section of the homepage.

Sky

Me:48
H:48
M:23, T:27
DD 24
Bomb 1 07/27/10,IDLY,moved out without notice while I was at funeral
Bomb 2 09/30/10, "I can't return home, I want D"
Found out OW in picture since 07/09
D'd: 04/01/11