g450 the reason to let go is so that you don't lead her on and become the #1 A-hole you know?

That's why we need to let people go once we realize there is no future...to do the right thing.

Oh and guess what? She will survive without you. Think of it like this--now that she has seen she can "get" a good guy once, she can try to find other "good guys" who aren't married.

(it is so reminiscent of my exH and OW--she was a tramp, he wanted to save her, so he did and now he GOT his slutty selfish piece of work)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004