Here we go up, up, up... and away!

[punkin]

Zen,

Everytime I read someone's sitch on this Board going through this with small children, I Thank God that I am not having to deal with that. Grown ones are bad enough. Grands are not easy, either. You sound like you are doing everything you can to keep yourself in good mental condition, and your reminders are spot on.

This is a tough time of the year. I've found that to be especially true. I think you are handling it well with grace and dignity. I myself have lost my grace and dignity quite a few times lately, so trust me, it's better than shooting yourself in the foot by causing any undue battles with the H. You know he loves your D, and that she loves him. She's just a very confused little girl right now. I'm not telling you anything you don't already know right now, I know.

Just keep doing as you are. Sometimes treading water is all we can do, but it keeps our heads above water.