i just wish she would allow some outside influene like these forums she will not read or listen to anything along these lines.
That is part of the script, accept it, stop trying to control her.
Originally Posted By: disbelief2010
She is finally talking to some of her family. I am not sure if that is helpful or hurtful.
She is starting to reconnect. That is good! Have no expectations about this.
Originally Posted By: disbelief2010
I am working to detatch it is so hard I am going to ask my IC for help. Does LRT work if she is in the house?
Yes it works even if they are in your house! That is even better!
Originally Posted By: disbelief2010
Supposedly the A is over. She still feels the need to seperate. Instead of arguing when she last brought it up my final statement was You need to do what you need to do I cannot change how you feel, but you know how I feel.
Learn to Validate. Have you read the thread on validation?
