Rob, to be honest, i wasnt apologizing to her. This was the first time that I actually talked to her like a friend. I didnt push anything on her, i didnt bring up us, we just talked. I did let her comments sink in, but I didnt react to them and I didnt point them out to her. I let her talk. I let her tell me what was going on in her head. When i dropped her off at home, she said thank you and that was it. I felt very good about our talk.
I'm not an idiot, i know she has feelings for OM. They have had an ea for a year and a pa for 1month then she moved in and has lived with him for 8 months. What i take as very interesting is that she doesnt talk about her stress with him. they dont solve things as a couple should. For pete's sake, in the eyes of our government they are common law married and they dont discuss life.
I did find out that the OM went to university for Physcology and socialogy. Maybe he just doesnt bring up life stresses so she wont feel pressure. Maybe he just plays the game and is miles ahead of me.
I just cant figure how you can live with someone and tell them about you money issues, your health issues, the fact that the dealer has your car as you cant pay for it. This doesnt make sense to me. She comes to me to discuss it and have me bail her out.
Rob, I did ask her why she cant use the OM's car, she says its not safe to drive.
