I think its over help pls

[blue2010]

Your wife must look within in order to solve her issues.
There is NOTHING you can control to make this happen.
It is her journey, and you are now on your own journey.
Work on yourself and fix that which you need to work on.
Read about detachment, and start LRT.

I am beginning to accepy more that she has to figure this out for herself. i just wish she would allow some outside influene like these forums she will not read or listen to anything along these lines. She is finally talking to some of her family. I am not sure if that is helpful or hurtful.
I am working to detatch it is so hard I am going to ask my IC for help. Does LRT work if she is in the house? Supposedly the A is over. She still feels the need to seperate. Instead of arguing when she last brought it up my final statement was You need to do what you need to do I cannot change how you feel, but you know how I feel.