Evolve
I agree with the others. Memories are not bad. They might hurt, but they are YOURS and you don't let the wayward take those away. I too struggle with memories. But sometimes its ok to feel some hurt for you instead of the H.

Hang in there
I think you are probably doing better than me these days!
GW

M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11