I think you should stop trying to figure out how to help her overcome her addiction. I'm in Alanon and you cannot fix or change an addiction.
You are right and I have. I needed to try to understand...I do more so now...and that helps me, just knowing a little. [quote]And I remember that as long as you gave her an option, she kept things in limbo. /quote] Yes you are so right on this. So simply put, and so accurate. [quote]Let her be alone. Even for a temporary separation. Force her to go the other way, toward OM. It may not be the end of your marriage, because she will see for herself that OM is a loser who is using her. You CANNOT MAKE HER SEE THIS./quote] Just a matter of when...now or after christmas. I like you caps section...I needed that not so subtle reminder. Really did. Thank you
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
