You have a strong intuition and you are very attuned to her. Make sure that you direct that intuition towards YOURSELF too. Use your gut to figure out what you need, from day to day, hour to hour, moment to moment/quote]
[quote]Do not make the mistake of making this about the OM, or "addiction". This can't work if your W does not take serious action towards dealing with the mess that she's created. You cannot do it for her and you must hold her to a standard of behaviour as she does this
I know...this isn't letting her off the hook, but trying to understand how a women I thought was so strong can continue to mess her life up. Heck she told me in talking to a friend the other day, she said "I'm trying to completely mess up my life again"...and it helps me forgive, which is not a bad thing
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
