Mila, You handled the interaction w/your h. He's not understanding that time doesn't sit still and wait on him to return from la la land. Your D is growing up and is making her own decisions and if he doesn't pull his head out of his @ss, he's going to be missing out on a whole lot more going on in her life.
The meeting Saturday should be interesting. If you can remain as calm as you were yesterday, you will do just fine. I'm really sorry that you are having to go through this, especially this time of the year.
I'm sending positive thoughts your way!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
