online dating tips #3

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kml,

I hear you. You are not the first one to say get out of this situation. And you and others are probably 100% right.

But in her defense I will say this. She knows that I value honesty above all else. This is why she volunteered this info to me. I did not ask her for it. In fact I told her I really did not want to know. She laid it on me anyway and I actually appreciated her candid honesty. It was refreshing after being lied to by my XW for years.

And she was 100% faithfull to her husband even two years past him moving out and cheating on her. She told me that she was simply going through a stage where she wanted sex. I remember my XW was the same way with me when she hit menopaus (sp?). She was horny as hell and even showed me some new moves. In retrospect, I now wonder where she learned those new moves.

But I have to say that my GF is the sweetest woman I have ever met. She loves kids and is totally trusting of all people even when it is not to her benefit (think used car salesmen). She is a classic example of a woman that really does need and deserve an honest man to help her in life and the good part is she has so much love to give. Her good parts outweigh her issues.

It's very complex and I could literally write a book about her here so I wont get into it. But I consider myself a good judge of character. I will not judge her on her past but I am smart enough to keep an ear on the tracks and an eye over my shoulder if you know what I mean. My divorce has made me smarter, a better man overall and much more vigilant of trouble.

Like other women I have met she views sex and love as two separate things. But she has sworn to be faithful to me even though I did not ask her this. I can't just throw this away. It is so hard to find. I place high value on that. This is why breaking up with her would be very hard for me to do.