I really hope so dbmod. I really do. Thanks for the encouragement.
I agree SD, we need counseling, but she says she doesn't think that she can do any more counseling than the personal therapy she's getting now. She wants to let our relationship breath and not just pick it up too intensely when she is still so confused.
I don't like it.
I feel that if we're going to work on it, then we should work on it. She wakes up daily with a different emotion and I'm trying to do what dbmod suggests by being there for her, but I'll be honest -- it's driving me crazy.
I want to give her the space and support she needs, but it feels like I'm hanging myself at the same time. The weird thing is ... she's my wife!!!!
Man, I'll bet this happens quite a bit, but rarely do I hear much about it.
