Boy did I need to read that Kitti! I am so caught up in trying to make my H want to come home that I have not been tending to MY needs. This certainly has an impact in how he sees me. In the past, the more independent and happier I was with myself, the more attracted he was to me. No one will MAKE me happy but ME. H's actions are important, but I still have to find inner happiness and not depend on his moods to determine how I feel.(a biggie trap I think most of fall into) Starting today, I will do what I need to do, and will concentrate more on me and less on him. Thanks Kitti! Rachael
