I think we both would feel better for a hug right now
Thank you do much for the lighthouse story...I KEEP forgetting his is in a mess inside himself...I keep thinking he's doing this in clarity, I guess its cause I feel a bit shaken up...
I'm gonna print that one out
Also gonna do as you suggest - I think a little treat of somekind is in order...plotting and planning Will let you know what I end up with