But if you are really clear you don't want to raise someone else's child, then you are just keeping her around for your own selfish comfort. Set her loose.
I agree- you said she is willing to accept a weekend relationship but at the same time she will be pushing for more. You said you don't see a future with her so let her loose! What's the point since that boy is always around and you can't even get some, right?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
