She'd wanted to know about the changes I was making, wanted to know if I was making them for her or for me. I said both, but mostly for myself ( did I screw up?) I told her it was probably like a 90/10 split.
She is noticing.
If she asks again, maybe say something like "It stinks it took this situation for me to realize that I needed to change some things in myself that were no longer working for ME."
Originally Posted By: MisterHopeful
Shortly after that she txts , something along the lines of [n]ot seeing us as more than friends. /sigh
Maybe view this as her 'checking herself' and trying to remind herself that she is going to stick with her plan even though she notices the improvements in you. Especially coming so soon after the 'changes' comments.
