MLC or just an EA?

[Nina]

I agree with InAPickle. I too am in a very simular situation. However, I did tell my husband that out of respect for our family, myself, himself and our children he needed to let our marriage run its course and end any contant with the OW. I don't know how helpful that will be in the long run, but for me, I feel much better. I have made some progress with the LRT, so keep on doing it as it says that it can take some time. Patience, patience, patience is the key here. Remember keep trying the techniques for no less than a month and see if there are any baby steps at all. You are strong and can hang in there, the Lord is on your side!!! He will not give you more than you can handle and if it seems like he does give you too much, its because He wants to keep you close. Be strong for you and your family!