HI Pickle, At least she hasn't really seen him yet, wasn't it originaly planned to be 2 weeks ago? And true, unless they are both living in a fantasy world age takes its toll. My H's OW is 31, he's 44 and trying hard to look young, I found it so pathetic, to be honest, specially since he never used to be vain before. Once in a while though it is so tempting to take the hard line stance, today I felt so effing sick of being a BFF to the point of being confided to about things that hurt me that I just bolted out of the house before I could say anything stupid. The rest of the day I read Max Lucado, about how to love the person you're stuck with, and cried my eyes out. Happy Thanksgiving indeed. I thought I'd be happy today but instead, all the darned memories of better days are flooding in.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
