Quote: I try to look at it as a separation of ones emotions/feelings from the sitch...not from the person
An excellent point. I do believe that THAT is exactly what I have done and it has freed me to get back in touch with ME and MY needs and MY personal happiness, TOTALLY independant of my H or our R, which strangely enough is getting better and better with every passing day that I am happier with MYSELF...it's almost as if its either contageous or sends out a 'silent warning' to our S to either hurry up and catch up or you my love will be the one sitting there stunned by YOUR loss.
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