Mystik, as I've said before... you've still got work to do. Hon... I know it could sound "easy" for me to say because I've crossed that bridge... but trust me... I'm telling you this for VERY good reason.
Once the dust settles and once he grows his brain back... it's going to be YOU who's going to go through a bunch of emotions that you thought you could never feel. Once a honeymoon get back together period settles... it will be YOU that grows cold.
Eg... YOU have the potential to become the walk away spouse. I'm telling you this for a reason. DEAL with your stuff NOW... without it, it's not he who'll kill the marriage in the end, it will be you. You've got a kid who's been through enough... GET you straight so that if the chance for the H to come back arises,... the ducks will all be in a row. Work hard now because you'll have to draw on that strength later.
Read what I'm saying here ... as well as what I'm not saying. Ya know what I mean?
Abs.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
