I would just wish him a Happy T-day. I would thank him for all the T-day meals he prepared (he was the cook in the house). I would tease him again about the first T-day he prepared where the turkey wasn't done and he thought creamed corn could be made by putting it in the blender (not palatable-don't try this at home).
We had absolutely nothing to our names at the time. We ate in the basement of a house that he was renting. It was dark, damp and disgusting... but, he made-do by using what little we had to make a huge meal. It was just the two of us.
ugh, memories are bittersweet...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."