I'm sorry that's meaningless. I tend to feel that DB only prepares you be divorced and doesn't really save any marriages. All this talk about how you DB and work real hard and they you have story after story after story of the W or H who just keeps on walking.

I mean regardless of this "system" one will have to be prepared to get on with your life no matter what your SO choice is. I can want all I want to be married and have the family back, but if my SO doesn't want that it doesn't matter.
Yes I can be hopeful, optimistic, etc and that will have an effect on my SO, but if it's not enough of an effect, so what.

time is precious. It's the only thing I can create or make. So the cost is significant lets not gloss that over.

Sorry to be such a downer, but I'm beginning to question this method.

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.