Hope it's not too late

[what next?]

What I need to know now is what should I be doing? I'm in last resort mode and trying not to contact her at all. She has sent me a couple of texts that were either about valuing our assets or getting an address of a friend which i replied to but nothing more substantive than that. I'm resigned to the fact that this is happening and I thought maybe I should just start the steps without regard to the last resort. Work towards building something instead of just ignoring her. I'm just afraid that whatever I do it is the wrong thing...