Sandi -
I don't know right now what I want. That is part of the problem. I think I know, but then when I do some soul searching, I am no longer 100% positive. I think I would give it one more shot...

Puppy actually is NOT against your advice provided I have legal and financial situations squared away (not quite there yet) and that I have intel sources to protect me and the family. He says without those 3, then he doesn't recommend waiting. He is actually not going full boar on this one as you might expect.

Respect is an issue that would have to be resolved. Because I feel like I let her walk on me as it is...by not already sending her packing...but Puppy got me off that path of kicking her out without having legal advice first

More later
Short on time at moment

M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11