I know very well how difficult this has been for you as we share a sitch where our W's are survivors of sexual abuse.
I am finding that it is very difficult for them to become self aware enough to see that the destruction in their own lives is directly linked to that trauma.
I believe that the choices they make are a the only way they know how to deal with or react from a place they learned a long time ago as the victim.
It is so heartbreaking to watch someone you love be in so much pain.
You have done all you can do for her now. Continue to love her as I know you will.
Try to forgive yourself for what you think you might have done differently.
And have faith that she may in her own time find peace.
God bless.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
