Fix me, fix my life, win back my wife

[Truegritter]

"just stop it, that's not who you are".

Actions are speaking loudly.

She IS watching you. She doesn't believe the changes so keep it up.

AND

Now your actions are becoming YOU. Not a tactic.

You are doing great IMO SIC.

Keep those emotions where they belong. In your head not out of your mouth.

Or write them here as you have done.

Keep stepping toward being the strong man you want to be.