Originally Posted By: Tank
Maybe losing my job was the real kick in the ars that i needed to really focus.


As you will hear may on these boards:

Tragedy is the catalyst for change it is OUR choice what we do with it.

Good for you Tank.

On your W communication.

It makes her feel better if she can help you. She is looking at you as the weaker one.Relieves her guilt a little.

So if you respond make it short and sweet.

Be positive and step toward being the strong man you desire to be.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am