Thanks Bill, I am trying to do that, I have gained more control of my emotions again. I make sure I respond calmly. I am going to reread DR. We will see if she completed the seperation plan for the councillor. A week from today we were suppssed to do that. I need a very pro marriage councillor vs a mediator type we like ours but she isn't very proactive kind of middle of the road.
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10