Mila, It's a little bit of both, i.e., control and concern. Maybe he's have a sane moment, who knows, but I'm glad he's taken care of your D's car.
Everything w/them is hurry up and then they are forever coming to pick up what they'e asked you to do. It's part of the MLC behavior. There is no rhyme or reason for what they say or do, but it's whatever they are feeling at the moment they make the "demand". Just let it slide off your back....
Your home definitely will be quiet when your friend and D move out, but the holidays are fast approaching and I'm sure you and your D will be busy.
I do hope that you and your family have a Happy Thanksgiving!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
