Welcome to DB. Sorry you are here but you will find this a wonderful place and get lots of help.
This portion of the forum will not get a much traffic as newcomers or MLC so if you do not get as many responses you might want to move over to one of those forums to get more help. Also holidays and weekends are a little slower.
I see you also posted to IMLIN on the MLC board. She does not post here too much and that thread is stickied to the top for encouragement to people like yourself.
Depression is very tough to deal with.
You must let your husband go. You should look in the mirror and see those things that are wrong with yourself and work on them.
Actions speak louder than words. Learn to close your mouth and keep your eyes and ears open.
What activities do you like to do? Get out and do some of those things. (GAL=Get a Life)
You must give him space. You must learn to love her from a distance.
HAve you ever heard of if you love someone enough you let them go, if they don't come back they were never your to begin with? This is what you must do. No Begging, pleading, yelling. That is unattractive.
You must be the BEST MOM that you can be. That is the most important thing right now.
