I think its over help pls

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But she is claiming to have been unhappy for years.

Pure script. Everyone on here has heard it on multiple occassions. Believe nothing you are told from a WAW, and only believe half of the actions you actually see.

. But she is claiming to have been unhappy for years.

Just to show you how script this is. My W has said everything from "I've never been happy" to "I've not been happy for the last 2 years" Hmm choose a timeframe..

You may not be perfect, heck no one is, that also includes your W. At least half of this situation is on her. Think about that before you start blaming yourself for everything.

How altered does it get inside her head? She is still waiting for me to do something that would really hurt her back. She believes us splitting up is the only choice. Do I just agree and say go and leave and see what happens? Can seperation help? OM and spouse supposedly working on a no contact letter. We have 4 kids 11 and under Happy Thanks Giving everyone.