We'd had a good day, lots of good humored banter back and forth. So tonight I thought I'd be cute and txt her, she in the next room with the kids. It was fun for a while. But soon she turned the conversation into R talk. She'd wanted to know about the changes I was making, wanted to know if I was making them for her or for me. I said both, but mostly for myself ( did I screw up?) I told her it was probably like a 90/10 split. Shortly after that she txts , something along the lines of bot seeing us as more than friends. /sigh
No R talk, it can only lead to bad things. You should have been out on your own having fun last night. I bet she'd have been the one to text you then.