So much for "coming around"- new cold front yesterday.
When I back off, she drifts toward OM, when I press she runs to him.
After the EA she swore she would never do this to me again, yet here we are. I don't know how much energy I have for this AGAIN.
I'm not perfect, but did a lot of work after the PA. I made changes and addressed her concerns. She spent 2 years telling me how happy she was with the new relationship. When asked, she had no complaints, or might say she wanted to see me more confident about the relationship.
For the last 4 months of that, she was actively hiding communication with another man, and telling him she loved him.
I wish I could fix this, and wish I had the strength for another round, but I don't think that I do. Even if I did, what's to keep us from doing this every 2 years?
