well, i've decided it's over.. i have a parenting plan in place, an a pad to crash at starting saturday and I will be finishing up the divorce paperwork next week. NO way in hell I'm living with a wife who thinks she can talk to her former "soul mate" while she is married to me. Hard for me when I think of the kids, but as far as I am concerned I deserve so much better than this. I know I can survive and thrive after this and wish her a happy life.
I think you have no other option. Just flip the script, imagine you had the affair, got back together but still carried on talking to this "soul mate". Do you think she would have any hesitation in booting you out.
