Rob--this isn't what we do here. We SAVE marriages.
Dbmod, I know! There is nothing I want more in this world than to save my marriage, which is still on very thin ice. Although it is now 100 times better than it was 4 months ago. and I'm just trying to pass on some of what worked for me and what didn't.
However, I think Barb is in a situation where she needs to save herself and her sanity. Isn't that one of the key aims of DB'ing? Perhaps once she has done that the marriage will fall back into place. Her living under the same roof as this man is nothing but toxic to her.
