I am with flowmom. I only go out (with male or female friends) when my exH has the kids. I just prefer it that way. I think maybe 3 times in the last year I have gotten a sitter or used my parents so I could go somewhere when I had my kids, and those were for special events that popped up on my days. Then again I am fortunate that my ex is an involved father who has the kids 40% of the time...
That being said even if I finally meet a guy I want to start seeing on a regular basis, I intend to wait at least six months before ANY guy gets to meet my kids. It just won't happen. They don't need to be involved...
