Just wanted to add that when I spend time with my boyfriend, I do it guilt free, knowing that my kids are having a ball with their dad and that they NEED time with him. Your lady is in a much tougher situation...she doesn't have the luxury of knowing that her son is enjoying quality time when she is alone with you.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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