Originally Posted By: Punchy
Any advice out there with respect to snooping?


How does it make you feel?

Detached or upset?

Listen to your pain it will guide you through this.

You'll touch the burner as many times as it takes.

Originally Posted By: Punchy
I guess what she does now is her business


You can't control this...

So it is up to you what you want to do with it.

Don't do anything from emotion or spite.

Set boundaries for you not to control.

And makes sure you can enforce them.

Now what about this can you really enforce?

And what would the man you want to be do?

What step can you take for you right now?


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am